Week one you’re excited.
Week two you’re crying.
I’ve watched this play out more times than I can count with Lincoln families trying to move up on their own.
Not because they’re lazy. Not because they don’t work hard. They’re some of the most capable people I know.
The plan just isn’t built to survive contact with real life.
Week one: the whiteboard is undefeated
You sit down at the kitchen table with your spouse.
You make the list. Paint the hallway. Rip the carpet. Fix the deck. Get the basement dry. Then list. Then find the four-bedroom in Stevens Creek. Then move.
It looks so clean on paper.
You feel unstoppable.
This is the honeymoon phase. Everybody has it. Nobody warns you it’s about to end.
Week two: reality shows up
The painter you called doesn’t call back.
The carpet place can’t get to you for a month.
You pull up one loose board on the deck and find three more underneath.
Meanwhile you both still have jobs. The kids still need dinner, baths, rides, everything they needed before you decided to reroute your entire life through Lowe’s.
And here’s the part nobody tells you.
You can’t do the prep and live in the house at the same time without losing your mind.
The living room becomes a staging area. The garage becomes a warehouse. There’s tape on everything. You’re eating off paper plates because the kitchen is
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